Will He Commit?

Understanding Men in Relationships.

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Every woman has the right to feel secured in a relationship with her partner. Security brings hope, high self-esteem and ability to faithfully plan for tomorrow. That may be the case, particularly when the woman sees the partner as husband material.

However, her partner’s inability or reluctance to commit to a relationship may strain what could be a beautiful affair. This may become a hurdle for most women. Their inability to understand how a man’s mind works in this regard may leave them frustrated and unsure of themselves as women. If the man is husband material, there may be factors in the background that are slowing him down. Since it is the woman worried about commitment, it would help if she looked into their relationship objectively, including her partner’s perspective.

Amongst others, the woman may have to consider if her partner really loves her.

Loving is not all about saying “I love you”, but showing that I love you. The mistake most women make is falling for words. A man may say “I love you” when he actually means he wants to sleep with you. He may think he loves you because you remind him of his grandmother who used to bake him cookies. He may seem to love you because you make him feel good about himself.

Unlike to a woman, love may mean different things, particularly if he is still trying to understand relationships. As a result, he may not understand love from a woman’s point of view.