Premarital Sex: Aye Or Nay?

Two women debate about whether premarital sex is essential for a happy relationship.

- Chirag Mohanty

A TEST DRIVE ALWAYS WORKS

I will get married in June next year. The trousseau shopping has begun. I can’t afford to look unprepared or mediocre on D-day. This will be the best day of my life. I am so happy because my fiance is just the perfect guy. He is good in bed too. It happened after our fourth or fifth meeting. I can’t recall but the first time was just the way I wanted it. There was a helpless passion, the pressing need to surrender and the mad groping of each other. He propped me against the wall of the car park and kissed me. There was ferocity in the way his tongue sought mine, yet his hands on my back were so tender. At that moment, I knew that he was the one I had been waiting for. But I still wanted to decide after going all the way. The same night, we had sex at his house. It was mind-blowing. Later, he held my hand and we cuddled. I let my head rest on his chest and he kept telling me how good it felt to be with me. With due respect to all those who have taken the chastity pledge, here’s why sex before marriage is essential.

1 If we ever break up, I am sure it wouldn’t be because of bad sex. I know he can arouse me in minutes and ignite an all-consuming passion. Sexual chemistry can only be ascertained by having sex.

2 I know he is not gay because he couldn’t have feigned that interest. It was written all over his face. The climax was great too and he came back for more.