I DO...DO I?

Planning to marry? Don't forget to have these discussions early to avoid being disappointed later.

- Ravina M Sachdev

There are plenty of things to be spontaneous about in life; marriage isn’t one of them! Getting hitched is a life-altering decision, and it’s one you’ll have to live with for the rest of your life. You might be madly in love with your partner, but planning a wedding without discussing important details about your life together is going to cost you later. Ask him these questions now to avoid disappointment in the years to come.

DEFINING ‘MARRIAGE’

Dating is fine, but people tend to have different ideas about marriage. It could mean regular date nights, doing everything together… It might be an all-consuming partnership for you, but your partner could see it as just a legal agreement. “Talking about your expectations can help ensure both of your needs and expectations are met, so it feels like you’re approaching and starting a new chapter together,” shares Mumbai-based relationships expert Anchal Trivedi. When in doubt, communicate, ask questions, listen and discuss. It’s the shortest path around obstacles.

MAKING MONEY