Love Beyond Luste

The journey from passion to profound connection.

- A Kartikeyan

In today's fast-paced world, where dating apps and social media reign supreme, relationships often start with a spark of attraction-an intoxicating blend of excitement and desire. But as time passes, many couples find themselves wondering: Was it love, or just lust? Lust may ignite the fire, but true love sustains it, transforming fleeting passion into an enduring connection.

Science tells us that while physical attraction is an essential part of relationships, love is far more complex, rooted in emotional intimacy, shared experiences, and mutual respect.

To understand love beyond lust, it's important to break down the science behind them. Lust is primarily driven by hormones such as testosterone and estrogen, which create feelings of physical attraction and desire. It's an evolutionary instinct, designed to drive reproduction and ensure survival.

However, as relationships progress, another set of chemicals comes into play-dopamine, which is responsible for pleasure and reward, and oxytocin, known as the "love hormone," which fosters trust and bonding. Neuroscientific studies show that long-term love activates areas of the brain associated with attachment and deep emotional connection rather than just physical desire.

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