Traits For Life

Beyond academics, problem-solving, resilience and confidence go a long way in helping your child blossom. Educators share how you can nurture these qualities from a young age

- Jane Ng

When children in MOE Kindergarten @ Springdale encounter a problem, they reflect on it to determine if it is a small, medium or big one.

They have learnt that small problems can often be solved independently; medium ones may require some assistance from peers or adults; and big problems need the involvement of an adult to ensure safety.

This "Size of the Problem" concept aims to help children develop problem-solving skills, says its centre head, Madam Nur Hidayah Jamari.

"For a small problem, like not wanting to share a toy, children are encouraged to talk to their friends and negotiate taking turns," she says.

For a medium problem, such as a peer using unkind words multiple times, children can express their feelings using phrases such as "stop, I don't like it." For a big problem, such as witnessing unsafe behaviour like climbing furniture, children are taught to seek help from an adult immediately, she adds.

Teachers teach this concept through stories and provide opportunities for children to practise their problem-solving skills.

"By supporting them to reflect on their problems, children make better choices when situations occur," she says.

CREATIVE PROBLEM-SOLVING

Why it is important

Being able to think of creative ways to solve a problem helps children approach challenges with confidence, says Madam Hidayah.

Children encounter problems daily, from resolving conflicts to tackling challenging tasks.

If parents start nurturing their children's ability to solve problems creatively from a young age, it empowers them to think independently and make informed decisions, says Madam Hidayah.

"This skill enhances their ability to collaborate effectively and adapt to different situations," she adds.