Why women are embracing divorce rings as symbols of empowerment

RECLAIMING IDENTITY

- VUYILE MADWANTSI

FOR decades, divorce was something women were expected to endure quietly, paperwork signed, rings tucked away in drawers, grief processed behind closed doors. But lately, something has shifted.

Instead of hiding the end of a marriage, more women are marking it. Not with bitterness or spectacle, but with intention. The divorce ring has entered the chat, a trend that’s equal parts fashion statement, psychological ritual, and personal reclamation.

At first glance, it might look like just another jewellery moment. But linger a little longer, and you'll see something deeper shimmering beneath the surface: transformation.

What is a divorce ring?

A divorce ring is a personal statement piece, often repurposed from an engagement or wedding ring, or designed from scratch. These rings symbolise:

• Liberation: Breaking free from old narratives and reclaiming your autonomy.

• Transformation: Embracing a new identity and celebrating personal growth.

• Community: A silent nod of solidarity to others who’ve walked the same path, sparking conversations and connections.

Unlike traditional wedding bands, which signify union, divorce rings are about individuality. They’re reminders that while a marriage may end, your story continues stronger and wiser.

Psychologists have long understood the power of ritual in transition.

According to research published in Psychology Today, symbolic acts help the brain process loss and change by giving abstract emotions a physical anchor.