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What I wish I knew before I started dating
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|October 22, 2025
THE dating world today can feel like a labyrinth — a mix of romance, catfishing, love-bombing, and if you are lucky, genuine love.
As human beings, we are wired for connection. Even after heartbreak, there comes a time when we start yearning for love again — for “the one” we believe we are meant to share life with. Unless you are fortunate enough to have friends or family introducing you to a compatible match, you may find yourself turning to the often unpredictable world of social media and dating apps.
Whichever way you meet someone new, it’s important to be aware of a few red flags and to do some honest self-reflection before diving in.
Red flags:
@ Love bombing: this happens when someone you have only been texting starts declaring that you are the love of their life. They describe a fairytale future together — even though you have never met in person. Remember: words and promises mean nothing without consistent action. Suggest meeting for coffee early on. If they always have excuses, it’s best to move on — chances are they are messaging several others at the same time.
This story is from the October 22, 2025 edition of Post.
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