J.LO THROWS IN THE TOWEL!

Diva's done with trying to fix things with bull-headed Ben

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FED-UP Jennifer Lopez has finally decided to kick Ben Affleck to the curb and bid him good riddance, according to insiders who say the diva's over trying to save their disastrous marriage.

Although The National ENQUIRER previously reported the 54-year-old This Is Me... Now singer was desperately fighting to save her relationship after flaky Ben, 51, threw in the towel months ago, a tipster now tattles "she's hit a wall when it comes to fixing things because he just isn't reciprocating."

In June 2023 the couple, who wed in 2022 two decades after calling off their original engagement, plunked down $60 million for a Beverly Hills mansion, but less than a year later the Batman hunk ditched Jenny from the Block and moved into a $100,000-a-month rental near his 52-year-old ex-wife, Jennifer Garner.

"At first J.Lo was willing to do anything to get him to come home, but it was just pointless," dishes the insider. "She's now telling friends she's over trying." Despite the embarrassing split, J.Lo has been putting on a brave face and the pair have been doing their best to keep things friendly for the sake of their kids, reveals the tattletale.