Try GOLD - Free
BACK TO BILOELA at last
The Australian Women's Weekly
|July 2022
Meet Priya, Nades and their girls, the Sri Lankan family who, for four years, were shunted from pillar to post by the Australian government. And meet the Queensland country town that fought a David and Goliath battle to get them back.
On the surface, everything seemed normal. It was a sunny, blue-sky day in early May, when Priya and Nades welcomed The Weekly to their temporary townhouse in East Cannington, Perth.
They ushered us in and served homemade snacks and sweet tea. Being a weekday, their daughters, Kopika, who was turning seven that week, and four-year-old Tharnicaa, were at a nearby primary school. A gaggle of sulfur-crested cockatoo toys – the symbol of their much-loved former home in Biloela, Queensland – was perched on top of the TV.
Priya and Nades were polite and warm. But within minutes of starting our conversation, Nades was passing tissues to his wife as tears flowed and her voice rose with emotion, a torrent of sentences tumbling over each other in her native Tamil, an interpreter asking her to slow down and patting her hand in comfort.
As it turns out, everything was far from normal for the Nadesalingams (who are also known as the Murugappan family). And it had been that way for some time.
Nades and Priya, both 45, had come to Australia from war-torn Sri Lanka, in 2012 and 2013 respectively. They’d met and married in Sydney in 2014. It was an arranged marriage, and although they had spoken on the phone, they’d not seen each other before their wedding day. But as Nades says, “I always thank God because he has blessed me with Priya as my wife. Through thick and thin, and no matter what we have been through in life, we stand by each other.” They have been through a lot.
This story is from the July 2022 edition of The Australian Women's Weekly.
Subscribe to Magzter GOLD to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 10,000+ magazines and newspapers.
Already a subscriber? Sign In
MORE STORIES FROM The Australian Women's Weekly
The Australian Women's Weekly
Put a bin in it
From shifting hormones to changing gut health, here's what could be behind your bloating.
5 mins
December 2025
The Australian Women's Weekly
Storytime
Believe the hype. Buckeye has been tipped as the novel of the year.
3 mins
December 2025
The Australian Women's Weekly
Here comes the sun
Sunshine won't just lift your spirits. Turns out this therapeutic tool has benefits for your bones, heart and immunity as well as your mood!
4 mins
December 2025
The Australian Women's Weekly
Park life
They're fun, relaxing, invigorating and plentiful. And best of all, they're affordable. Welcome to the wonderful world of Australia's holiday parks.
2 mins
December 2025
The Australian Women's Weekly
The sound of silence
Being cut off by a close family member is devastating. But with one in five families dealing with it, it's time to talk about the realities of being estranged from a relative.
7 mins
December 2025
The Australian Women's Weekly
Health news
Can't remember the last time you ventured out on two wheels? It might be time to dust off your bike, with scientists discovering that cycling could be one of the simplest ways to support long-term brain health.
1 min
December 2025
The Australian Women's Weekly
Dinner for two
This vibrant linguine combines briny olives, peppery rocket and flaky tuna with crispy breadcrumbs for bold Mediterranean flavours.
1 min
December 2025
The Australian Women's Weekly
Money matters with Effie
The festive season is fast approaching, and while it's a wonderful time of the year, it can also be very expensive. Between gifts, travel and those “must-do” sales, it’s easy for “ho-ho-ho” to turn into “Oh-no-no-no!”. But instead of starting the New Year deep in hock, let’s make Christmas 2025 a little different. Because with some planning, you can enjoy the celebrations without budget worries.
3 mins
December 2025
The Australian Women's Weekly
Travel news
Calling all Elvis fans and all romantics. The Parkes Elvis Festival 2026 will have a “Love Me Tender” theme, with even a Renewal of Vows Ceremony among the packed five-day program over January 7-11.
1 mins
December 2025
The Australian Women's Weekly
TRIO OF DIPS
You just can't beat homemade dips for quality, flavour and freshness. They only take minutes to whip up and you'll be the most popular guest at the party!
1 mins
December 2025
Translate
Change font size

