My child is autistic. It's becoming CHALLENGING...

My three-year-old daughter was recently diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder (ASD). We are consulting a child psychologist. It’s becoming very challenging to cope with the situation. Please help.

— Kshiti Mehta, Delhi 

Parenting a child with autism is not easy. I recommend the following: 

Educate yourself. Research and educate yourself about ASD. The more you know about ASD, the easier it will become to understand and relate to your daughter’s behaviour.

Consistency and routine. Be consistent with your child’s routine and encourage learning by repetition. This will provide her a sense of security and well-being.

Self-care. Parents of children with special needs often neglect their own needs. Make time for self-care by requesting extended family/ friends to help out, and/or rescheduling your child’s classes or therapies.

Remember that every child with autism is unique. Consult a healthcare professional to develop a customised plan that addresses your daughter’s specific needs and strengths.