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Caught between broccoli battles and cupcake chaos: life as a Type C mother
The Mercury
|June 11, 2025
I LIKE to think of myself as a Type C parent which is basically code for “I’m trying really hard, but things don't always go according to plan” - and I'm okay with that ... mostly.
It’s that sweet spot between the highly organised Type A parents - you know the ones with children who eat broccoli for snacks without complaining and the laid-back Type B crew, whose kids wear pyjamas to the mall and have never heard of a bedtime.
As a mother of twin daughters one who is on the autism spectrum every day is a fine balance of managing chaos and embracing it. Like the time when they were 4 years old and I took them to a five-star hotel in the V&A Waterfront.
The invitation said “kiddie-friendly high tea”, and in my head, I imagined Instagrammable moments of my girls nibbling on cucumber sandwiches in floral dresses. The reality? They flat-out refused to wear shoes, let me brush their hair, or wear anything remotely matching.
This story is from the June 11, 2025 edition of The Mercury.
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