She helped me through cancer, but now I want a divorce

I'm a man in my 40s and happy to say I've got the all-clear after surgery and treatment for bowel cancer, which was thankfully caught early.

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When I was ill and recovering, my wife was amazing. She was supportive and practical, and helped me to stay positive throughout it all. I'll be forever in her debt.

But, and it's a big but, since being ill, I've reassessed my whole life, including my marriage and I don't want to be with my wife any more.

I love her and she's my best friend, but I don't want to be married to her.