POLES & HEELS

Dance is a powerful form of self expression and a liberating artistic outlet. Many women feel like it allows them to reclaim their bodies, tap into their sensuality and unleash their inner sexiness. These four women share their stories of how unconventional dance lessons helped them to feel confident, sexy and self assured embracing their femininity on their own terms.

- SINDEKA MANDOYI

Amy Leibbrandt

Pole-dancer

GLAMOUR: What inspired you to start pole-dancing, and how has it affected your life and self-perception?

Amy Leibbrandt: In 2016, I was sexually assaulted – little did I know that it would be the beginning of an almost decade-long judicial process in the courts (the trial is still ongoing). Throughout the process of going to the police, attending court, testifying, maintaining my job to a high standard and trying to be the best single mom I could be, I was struggling to rebuild myself and take back power over my body.

A friend of mine suggested we go to a pole class – the moment I stepped into the studio, I [felt stronger]. Something about the movements and the strength required to do pole-dancing resonated with me. I was hooked.

Over the past six years, I'm grateful to have built a strong and healthy body, and I am in awe of how resilient I have become. Pole-dancing has not only changed me physically, but has completely transformed the way I see myself. Being able to lift your body up on a piece of metal is pretty amazing.

G: How do you respond to people who may still view pole-dancing as objectifying or degrading?

AL: It's very natural for people to immediately think of stripping when you tell them you pole dance. Respectfully, the roots of modern pole-dancing come from strippers—we owe that community for its existence.

I am not bothered by judgmental people – life is too short to worry about the opinions of others. I am very proud of what I'm able to achieve with my own strength. Being able to do tricks on the pole that an average person cannot do is empowering.

G: How has pole dancing helped you confront and overcome shame about your body?