Try GOLD - Free
I HAVE FOUND PEACE
YOU South Africa
|30 January 2025
Her husband shot her in the back and changed her life forever, but a little dog has helped heal Elsanne's heart
THE little dog shoots through the air like an arrow, landing neatly on her owner's lap and settling down as a gentle hand strokes her soft brown ears.
Jessie the Jack Russell is Elsanne Kamffer's best friend, constant companion and biggest comfort – the little creature who's helped her overcome some of her darkest days and brought joy and laughter to her life again.
And heaven knows, for a while Elsanne found little to laugh about. Life as she knew it changed in a few moments of terror when her ex-husband came to her office and shot her before turning the gun on himself and dying in hospital shortly afterwards.
Elsanne (54) was left paralysed and, although she still hopes for a miracle, will probably be in a wheelchair for the rest of her life. But Jessie has healed her heart, she says, and made her realise there's still plenty of purpose in her life.
She will never forget the day her ex, Kobus Kamffer, pulled out the gun.
"It looked like a toy," she says. "I didn't think it was real."
But it was – and the damage it wreaked was catastrophic.
Elsanne was working in marketing at a training centre in Cape Town in October 2017 when Kobus called, saying he wanted to finalise divorce matters.
'BEFORE HE SHOT ME HE TOLD ME HE WAS JUST GETTING HIS AFFAIRS IN ORDER'
"Where are you?" he asked.
Elsanne, who had been married to him for 20 years, told him she was at work but thought nothing more of it. Less than an hour later he arrived at her building.
Kobus is here, a colleague told her, and Elsanne's heart sank. She didn't want to see him and tried to run down the fire escape but she didn't get a chance: he was there right in front of her, blocking her way.
This story is from the 30 January 2025 edition of YOU South Africa.
Subscribe to Magzter GOLD to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 10,000+ magazines and newspapers.
Already a subscriber? Sign In
MORE STORIES FROM YOU South Africa
YOU South Africa
SHIMZA'S COACHELLA DEBUT
South African electronic music sensation Shimza-real name Ashley Kholofelo Raphala (36)-made history at Coachella 2026.
1 mins
23 April 2026
YOU South Africa
TROUBLE WITH LAMAR
A new doccie reveals the turmoil that has marked the life of the basketball star – and the lengths ex-wife Khloé went to in order to save him from himself
5 mins
23 April 2026
YOU South Africa
JUST CALL ME GRAN
MOVE over, red carpets - Hollywood's grande dames are trading scripts for sippy cups and absolutely loving it. From Oscar winners to reality TV royalty, Tinsel- town's leading ladies are embracing their most rewarding role yet: grand- mother. These powerhouse women prove that whether they're called Gigi, Lovey or Glam-Ma, grandmahood might just be their most coveted starring role.
1 mins
23 April 2026
YOU South Africa
A HYMN TO LIFE: SHAME HAS TO CHANGE SIDES
Inspiring, shocking, brilliant: three new releases that will take your breath away
1 mins
23 April 2026
YOU South Africa
CONFESSIONS OF A TRAINEE VET
Horses with colic, puppies bitten by snakes, bulls with bellyache - during her time as a student at the Onderstepoort veterinary campus, Caitlin Venniker saw it all. In this funny and fascinating extract from her new memoir, she shares some of her most memorable experiences
14 mins
23 April 2026
YOU South Africa
THE HOFF SLOWS DOWN
He found fame with Baywatch, then booze took him to rock bottom – now David Hasselhoff is two decades sober, married again and a doting grandfather
4 mins
23 April 2026
YOU South Africa
FURY ON THE COMEBACK TRAIL
Former world heavyweight champ TYSON FURY marked his latest return from retirement with a unanimous points win over Russia's Arslanbek Makhmudov.
1 min
23 April 2026
YOU South Africa
5 THINGS we're talking ABOUT this WEEK
TERRY CREWS' WIFE BATTLES PARKINSON'S
2 mins
23 April 2026
YOU South Africa
ANYTHING FOR MY GIRL!
FIRST holidays hit different when you're a new mom and former Miss Universe OLIVIA CULPO made sure her daughter Colette's inaugural Easter was one for the books.
1 min
23 April 2026
YOU South Africa
COMEBACK QUEEN
Once dubbed 'the sixth Friend', Lisa Kudrow is now calling the shots
5 mins
23 April 2026
Listen
Translate
Change font size
