Sing, Sing a Song
The Oprah Magazine|January 2019

No matter what you sound like, everyone can take advantage of the health benefits of choral groups.

Kelly DiNardo
Sing, Sing a Song

SOMETHING HAPPENS when I play “Under Pressure” while driving my 4-year-old son to preschool: He turns into a pint-size Freddie Mercury, I become David Bowie mesmerizing the crowd, and we howl together at Let me out! At home, in our echoey hallway, we bellow Michael Jackson’s “Beat It.” And on our basement treadmill, I’m the breathless, out-of-tune backup vocalist for Rihanna. I love how my spirit soars when I sing, how alive I feel. But until recently, I didn’t believe I had the right to impose my croaky voice upon the world. I hadn’t sung in public since summer camp in the late ’80s—and that, I thought, was as it should be.

Then I heard about a resurgent trend: choral groups. Not Gleeor Pitch Perfect–level singers, just regular folks coming together for the pleasure of making music. And it turned out there was a weekly “community sing” called the Madison Song Circle only a ten minute drive from where I live in Wisconsin. Checking it out online, I liked how friendly, nonjudgmental, and noncommittal it sounded: no tryouts, no fees, just drop in any time.

So one rainy night, I open the door to a coffee shop and am greeted by the uneven melody of a folk song I don’t recognize, coming from a circle of nearly 20 adults. Even though this is a city so liberal that it’s sometimes referred to as the People’s Republic of Madison, I’m not prepared for how earnest and crunchy the whole scene is. Some singers have guitars; most are wearing Birkenstocks and flannel and are at least a decade older than I am; they all look like they’re more familiar with Joan Baez than Beyoncé.

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