Mum of two Anita Naik has been an agony aunt for 33 years

I need to do something drastic

- ANITA NAIK

Q I'm in my late 40s, and have always been confident. In my 20s, I was attractive and had my pick of men, but I've aged, and I hate the way I look. Men stop contacting me after a few dates. My daughter says it's because I'm negative about everything, but I wonder if it's because I don't look as good as my photos on dating apps.