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Help! He wants to use my sex toys

Q I've been happily using my vibrator since my last relationship ended. But now I've met someone new, I've put the vibe back in the drawer. So I was shocked to find my partner had found it and was keen to use it with me. I've been hesitating because I've never used a vibrator with a partner before. Do women use vibes even when they have a man?

SUSAN SAYS

AYes! Vibes are not just for when you're single. And they're not just for when you're taking pleasure alone – you can do all sorts of fun things with each other and to each other. The good news is that your man is obviously just the person to teach you what's possible. So tell him you want to learn, then add a whole new set of thrills to your bedroom action!

Alone – as always