THE UNWRITTEN RULES What Every Outsider Should Know about Goan Villages

Goa, known for its stunning beaches, vibrant culture, and hospitality, hides a quieter, more reserved side in its sprawling villages.

- Gauri Ghadge

While tourists flock to the coastal resorts and bustling towns, the rural heart of Goa beats to its rhythm. Here, away from the tourist hotspots, there exists a set of unwritten rules—subtle customs and traditions that guide daily life in a Goan village. These rules are followed by the locals without much thought, but to an outsider, they can seem mysterious, and even essential to understand if one wishes to blend in seamlessly.

In this article, we explore the unsung codes of village life in Goa-rules that shape the fabric of rural communities, often unnoticed by outsiders. Whether it's the appropriate way to greet elders, respecting sacred spaces, or understanding the peculiarities of village etiquette, these rules reflect the deep connection between Goans and their land, culture, and community.

Greeting Elders: The Subtle Art of Respect

In Goan villages, respect for elders is not just a cultural value but a way of life. If you find yourself walking through a village and cross paths with an elderly person, there is a certain unwritten rule that guides how you should behave. Unlike urban areas, where a simple hello suffices, in the villages, the greeting is often accompanied by an act of deference.

It's common for the younger person to make way for the elder and bow their head slightly. In some regions, you may also notice a gentle Dev borem korum(which means “God bless you” in Konkani) or simply a respectful nod. The importance of greeting elders with genuine respect reflects Goa's deeply ingrained culture of family ties and the importance of community.

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