Seven Rounds, Seven Promises: The Marriage Vows Discover the meaning behind the vows, embrace the true spirit of marriage.

Discover the meaning behind the vows, embrace the true spirit of marriage.

- JYOTSNAA G BANSAL

In a North Indian Hindu wedding, every round taken around the sacred Agni is a promise — from sharing food and well-being to staying lifelong companions — a tradition that ties family values with today's life. This ritual of seven rounds, known as the Saat Phere, forms the emotional core of a Hindu wedding ceremony. With Agni as witness (sakshi), the couple makes sacred promises, confirming their commitment and sincerity to the new relationship they are beginning. Each vow carries deep cultural significance, reflecting values of mutual love, duty and trust that will guide the pair through married life.

THE SEVEN VOWS (SAYINGS/PROMISES) OF THE BRIDE

In context of Vivaha Samskara (Hindu marriage ritual), this usually refers to the seven vows or promises made by the bride during the wedding rituals.

1. Whatever Yagya (Havan) is performed, my approval/consent should be taken.

2. If he gives a donation, in that too my consent must be taken.

3. Thirdly, in the three stages of life—childhood, youth, and old age—he should take care of me.