How films can help men combat loneliness and foster deeper connections

IT'S surprising that one of the biggest conversations online right now isn't about sports or politics.

- VUYILE MADWANTSI

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Instead, men are opening up about feeling lonely.

Many who grew up admiring tough movie heroes now admit they don't have close friends, struggle to share their feelings, and don't feel emotionally safe.

The "male loneliness epidemic" isn't just a trending topic. It's happening in real life and is more important than any movie. For the first time in a long while, men are openly saying, "I'm not okay". Why is male loneliness so prevalent and why has this conversation become urgent right now?

The answer lies in a complex web of cultural expectations, outdated definitions of masculinity, and societal shifts. Men have long been conditioned to equate strength with stoicism and emotional vulnerability with weakness.

This "macho bravado" has left many men unable or unwilling to build deep, meaningful connections. Add to this the declining influence of traditional support systems, such as communal spaces or family structures, and the result is a staggering emotional isolation.

Psychologists who study masculinity and loneliness point out that stoicism and self-reliance can keep men from deep, meaningful relationships.

Moreover, men often have fewer close friendships than women, and those friendships tend to be more surface-level. Over time, many men lose touch with real friends, especially when life changes (career shifts, breakups, moves).