My husband has spent our Christmas money

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Q:I set aside money for Christmas but my husband spent it on gambling. I’m really worried about how I can make Christmas special for the kids and concerned about how we'll repay his debts. Is there any advice for me?

A: We're really glad you got in touch. Dealing with a loved one’s gambling can be very stressful, and for households experiencing gambling harm, the festive season can be a time of increased worry rather than a celebration.

2024 GamCare research found that three in five people at risk of gambling harm are more likely to gamble at Christmas, and over half have spent money intended for seasonal purchases on gambling.

Factors like the early December pay day, festive spending and sporting events can make this time of year particularly difficult, with high living costs creating additional pressure.

Here's what help is available for you and your family.

First, it’s not unusual to feel anxious, angry or upset - charities like Ara Recovery for All offer dedicated support to ‘affected others’ who are impacted by someone else’s gambling: https://www.recovery4all.co.uk/

In Plymouth, Ara’s Community Engagement Lead Chaz Singh provides the opportunity for people to drop in and seek one-to-one support at the city centre's Barclays Bank on Fridays - no appointment needed.