The weekday wedding revolution

WEDDINGS have always had a certain magic about them.

- VUYILE MADWANTSI

For years, Saturdays reigned as the undisputed champion for tying the knot. But lately, there's a new trend shaking up the wedding world: micro weekday weddings.

If the idea of saying “I do” in front of 300 people and a DJ who keeps calling you Mr and Mrs Smith makes you squirm, you're not alone. Across the world, couples are turning away from over-the-top receptions and towards more intentional, intimate ceremonies with 50 guests or fewer.

For many couples, weekday weddings offer something that traditional Saturday celebrations simply can't, flexibility and affordability. With venues and vendors often booked months or even years in advance for weekend dates, weekday weddings open up a world of possibilities.

But it’s not just about availability and costs. There’s a growing desire for weddings to feel more personal and intentional, and weekday celebrations often come with a more intimate vibe.

With fewer scheduling conflicts, your guest list may be smaller, but it’s likely to be filled with people who truly want to celebrate with you, not just those fitting your wedding into a packed social calendar.

The rise of weekday weddings also reflects how modern couples are rethinking traditions. The pandemic taught us to embrace the unexpected, and weekday weddings have become a natural extension of that mindset.

Couples are breaking free from “rules” and designing weddings that feel right for them. It’s about creating moments that matter, whether it's a laid-back Thursday evening under fairy lights or a Monday brunch wedding with mimosa toasts.