All he does is moan and blame us for having to go to work

Dear Coleen

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I've finally made the decision to leave my partner after seven years together and two children.The past few years have been awful, but I kept trying to make it work because our kids were so young. My partner is immature and irresponsible, but I hadn't realised this until we had children. He can't cope with anything and just becomes verbally cruel. All he does is moan about being chained to a job he hates and blames us for having to go to work and provide for the family. I also work, but part-time and do everything - and I mean everything - for our kids.