4 thoughtful ways to make your mom feel special on your wedding day

WEDDINGS in South Africa aren't just a celebration, they're a family affair. But if you've ever found yourself locked in a cold war over the seating chart or caught in the crossfire of floral preferences, you'll know the real test isn’t sticking to the budget.

- VUYILE MADWANTSI

It's navigating the complicated, beautiful, sometimes bonkers relationship between a bride-to-be and her mom.

When “yes, mom” feels like “no, me”

We all know that moment your mom tears up at your dress fitting, remembers her own wedding, and suddenly, her dreams for your day start to bubble up.

Experts believe that it is natural for moms to be invested in their daughter's wedding day as they have also waited years for the occassion. However, it is vital to establish boundaries as well as a sense of control to ensure that it is enjoyable and memorable for all parties involved.

This isn’t just a wedding, it’s a lifetime of hopes, stitched into a single day. But what happens when your vision for a barefoot beach bash clashes with her dream of a grand ballroom? Or do you want to elope, and she’s already shopping for fascinators?

Stay calm