Politically DIFFERENT

NAVIGATING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A PARTNER WHO HAS DIFFERENT POLITICAL VIEWS ISN'T EASY, BUT IT CAN BE DONE. WE UNPACK WAYS TO HELP KEEP YOU ON TRACK

- ATLEHANG RAMATHESELE

While we tend to avoid conversations about money, politics and religion in company, it will likely come up in our relationships. It can be a bit challenging when dating online, since talking politics isn't exactly flirty, but it's better to discover your partner's views and opinions before you're head over heels in love. While others find that love and personality even out conflicting views, others might find it upsetting.

Sean King, a Johannesburg-based registered counsellor, suggests that refined communication is the key. Some people become emotionally responsive when discussing politics, so tread carefully too. Determine whether discussing politics is a dealbreaker or not. If it interferes to the point where your values are different, the relationship could become strained. "If your values align and you can recognise that, but still hold differences in political opinions, ask yourself whether it is worth involving politics," he says.