Dear Parents, Think Before You Speak!

You are the reason behind this problem (Tumhare vajah se hi ye problem hai),Why Can't You Be More like Your Sister?

- Dr. Pallavi Joshi

"We have gone through a lot for you and just look at you. (Tumhare liye hum logo ne kya kya nahi kiya aur tum ho ki....)

Remember. how it feels after hearing this statement from your parents? Almost one of the inevitable reactions it generates is of guilt. Unfortunately, our Indian parents use this guilt trap technique consciously or unconsciously to keep their kids under their control (irrespective of their kids age).

This guilt trap technique is just one example which is so common that is almost like socially accepted but there are many habitual patterns of parents that are very detrimental and damaging for the normal child growth.

Comparing between two siblings is very common which might lead to sibling rivalry and can impact as an inferiority complex in a child.

"Why Can't You Be More like Your Sister?"