What to Expect when you're Expecting... To Divorce

THE first months of the year can bring significant change for a lot of people.

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Some might decide that they want to change jobs, move house, travel more or perhaps embark on a new hobby. For others, their thoughts during this period may be of more life changing things; as research has regularly shown that after the festive season, a lot of people decide that their marriage is no longer working and think about divorce and separation.

Naturally, many people will feel apprehensive about the journey ahead and what their life will be like after their decree absolute comes through. Sue Andrews, partner with B P Collins who has over 35 years’ experience, advises on what can happen when you contact a specialist divorce lawyer - who should be able to provide reassurance to those thinking about taking such a step.

At your first meeting the solicitor will obtain factual information – such as length of your relationship, details about your children, incomes and other resources. But they should also take time to find out about your anxieties and goals as well as what has brought you to your decision. This is to establish whether the marriage has broken down irretrievably and so is divorce what you really want.

Your solicitor can only assess the situation realistically, if you are completely honest from the outset. If you hold something back it could delay resolution and hike up legal fees.

Depending on the circumstances, your lawyer may suggest