Help! How can I make solo sex more fun?

SUZIE HAYMAN AND SUSAN QUILLIAM CAN HELP

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Help! How can I make solo sex more fun?

Q I’m newly single and I’m still recovering from the break-up. I’m not looking for a long-term partner right now and have never been into casual hook-ups. That said, I really miss the sexual side of partnership and though I pleasure myself, I’m finding it all a bit tame and unsatisfying. How can I make solo sex more exciting - at least until I’m ready for a new man?

SUSAN SAYS

A Why not add in some things you'd enjoy if you were with a partner? Sexy underwear. Soft music. Lots of gentle self-touching. Taking time rather than going straight for orgasm. Also, try a selection of sex toys such as vibrators - particularly, choose one with varying rhythms so you get some of the unpredictability of sex with a partner. Try simplypleasure.com - ithas lots of toys to help with satisfying solo sex.

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