Family ruined big day

HOW can I forgive my family for ruining my wedding?

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My brother (the best man) gave a speech that was obscene.

My dad called me a "tart" and my (drunk) mum insisted on singing a rude song.

My relatives drank the bar dry, fought and indulged in dirty dancing. The hotel staff had to break up three fights and the whole thing was a shambles.