Help! I need some new ideas to turn him on

My new man is totally magic in bed. In fact, he's so good I feel I'm not measuring up, though he always says he's enjoying himself.

- SUZIE HAYMAN AND SUSAN QUILLIAM CAN HELP

Q I want to reward his generosity. He loves me to focus on his testicles, but apart from touching and licking I've no new ideas. Please can you tell me some clever moves to impress him?

SUSAN SAYS

A Don't feel you have to 'impress' your new man - he's happy with what you're already doing. That said, if you want to add to your repertoire, you could try cupping his balls then squeezing slowly until you find the pressure that suits him best. Or use both hands to hold the skin surrounding his testicles, then gently pull in opposite directions. As always with balls, though, go gently and carefully.

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