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His drug addiction is ruining our love life

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My partner and I are planning to move in together. The only cloud on the horizon is that he sometimes has a problem getting it up. I've been supportive, and he's finally admitted he has a drug habit. He only indulges when he's with mates after work, so he's managed to hide it from me. I'm now wondering if drugs are causing his erection problems.

SUSAN SAYS

Drugs may well be affecting your man's performance, so it's great news he's facing up to it. Support him to get help - talktofrank.com gives useful information and lists local services. Also, consider pressing pause on moving in together until he's had treatment. That'll not only mean you side-step the problems of living with a drug addict, but will also give him huge motivation to get clean.

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