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What to do if your child is a bully or targeted by one

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August 25, 2025

In the light of a recent school bullying case, here is some advice on what to do

- Sandra Davie

What to do if your child is a bully or targeted by one

Following the recent cases of school bullying, parents are seeking advice on how they can help if their child is targeted by a bully or is bullying someone.

Here is timely advice from clinical psychologist Carol Balhetchet, who studied bullying at the Singapore Children's Society, where she worked for more than 20 years.

This is excerpted from a story previously published in The Straits Times on Dec 2, 2024, titled "What to do if your child is targeted by a bully".

WHEN YOUR CHILD IS THE BULLY

Parents may be tempted to dismiss the issue as just a little teasing or feel that it is natural for children to fight with one another. But they should look into the situation immediately.

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