Warren Masemola sparked ‘what not to say at memorial services’

WHAT began as a heartfelt tribute to a fallen friend has turned into a national conversation about grief, boundaries, and respect.

- SIFISO MAHLANGU

Actor Warren Masemola’s emotionally raw speech at the memorial service for fellow actor Presley Chweneyagae has sparked debate over what should - and should not - be said at funerals.

Held at the Akasia Community Hall in Pretoria, the service was a sombre farewell to Chweneyagae, beloved for his breakout role in the Oscar-winning film Tsotsi. Friends, family, and industry colleagues gathered to honour the life of the 40-year-old actor, who died last week following a short illness. But Masemola’s speech quickly took centre stage - and not for the reasons many expected.

“Presley and I fought a lot,” Masemola told the crowd. “We fought about love, money, families, and children. But we also enjoyed kissing so much.” The unexpected intimacy of the comment was met with stunned silence in the hall, followed by a wave of commentary online.