Religious leaders address the impact of extravagant celebrations on families

DISPLAYS OF WEALTH Religious leaders address the impact of extravagant celebrations on families

- YOSHINI PERUMAL

RELIGIOUS leaders have noted patterns of overspending and extravagance for weddings. | Pexels

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RELIGIOUS leaders have weighed in on the concerns raised by Indian entrepreneur Jasveer Singh, and believe that his concerns resonate strongly among all religious groups in South Africa.

Dr Yusuf Patel, secretary general of the United Ulama Council of South Africa, said they were witnessing similar patterns of overspending and extravagance.

“Weddings, walimahs (receptions), baby showers, and even milestone birthdays have become increasingly elaborate. It is not uncommon for families to spend beyond their means, sometimes dipping into savings meant for education, housing or long-term security.

“Financial prudence is sometimes sacrificed for short-term social approval. Several factors intersect and drive this. This includes social comparison, where constant exposure to curated lifestyles creates unrealistic benchmarks, and cultural signalling where lavish functions are sometimes seen as indicators of success and respectability.

“Social media certainly amplifies this. Events are no longer just experienced. They are broadcast. We need to balance social media versus genuine acts of love.

“It is not entirely one or the other. Many families begin with sincere intentions, honouring a child or celebrating a union, but these intentions are often overtaken by the desire to create a memorable or impressive event,” Patel added.

He said social media could subtly redefine what memorable meant.

“Even where religion encourages simplicity, culture may push in the opposite direction. Over time, what was once optional becomes perceived as obligatory. The consequences can be significant. It can lead to financial strain, where debt and depleted savings can burden families for years.