Sister demands to hear all my gossip

PLUS ANY INTIMATE SECRETS

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I CAN'T escape my nosey sister's questioning.

She rings or visits most days and demands to know everything about my sex life, money and relationships - then slags me off. She's judgy and jealous and is always trying to make me feel bad about myself.

I know I'm not perfect. I know my partner is tricky and that I'm rubbish with money, but I wish she'd get off my back. She wants regular updates or she sulks.

She virtually brought me up after our parents divorced when I was 12 and she was 18. I'll always been grateful for everything she's done, but she doesn't own me.

I feel uncomfortable going into the intimate details of my sex life behind my guy's back. It feels disloyal. But she demands full disclosure from the sexual positions we enjoy to how big he is.