5 signs memory issues may not be routine

IF THE NEUROLOGIST DR. DANIEL Lesley sees 10 patients a day, at least half ask him the same question: Are the brain lapses they’re experiencing a normal part of aging?

- - BY ANGELA HAUPT

Or should they be worried? “People have an absolute terror of losing their memory and thinking they’re losing themselves,” says Lesley, who works at Remo Health, a virtual dementia-care company. “They don’t know what’s normal, what’s potentially a sign of something bad, and what’s reversible.”

Just like every other organ in the body, the brain changes as you age. Occasional, subtle memory problems—like not remembering where you parked—are usually no big deal. “Part of normal aging is paying less attention to details, and more attention to patterns and dynamics,” Lesley says. “It may also become more difficult to access things quickly,” like names and certain words.

When sporadic trouble becomes a regular occurrence, however, it’s time for an evaluation. If you’re not sure, ask a spouse, friend, or adult child, suggests Dr. Zaldy S. Tan, director of the memory and healthy-aging program at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center. “Have a conversation: ‘Have you noticed me repeating anything or asking the same questions? Have you noticed me misplacing things more often?’ Because we’re not necessarily the best judge of our memory,” he says.