'Dead Lover's Wife Is Blackmailing Me'

Move! reader is worried that a sex tape will ruin her marriage

- Dineo Rapulana

I AM a 33-year-old married woman with three children. While at university in 2015, I dated a lecturer who was also married because I feared that I would be victimised. I heard stories of lecturers who had previously failed students simply because they refused to go out with them. Although I didn’t love this man because he was old enough to be my father, I