Going Through Hard Times?

8–step-guide to Move Up Your Emotional Scale.

- Yashica Jalhotra

When you go through hard times and overcome that period with trust and techniques then not only you reach to a much desired state of your life but also feel empowered. You emerge like a winner and courageous than ever. You feel like you have dodged all the negative markers shadowing your life and have become the master of your life.

Aren’t there times when you fare low on your emotional scale and it seems impossible to gather even an ounce of strength to face the world?

Learning to move up the emotional scale is not only about trying new tips and techniques but accepting it as a lifestyle. The sooner you adopt, the better are the chances to lead a harmonious and happy life.

On this journey from being a failure to a survivor and then to a role model, you will keep on moving towards your true desires. You will get to know that you are much more than you have ever thought about yourself. This path will also teach you that your self-worth is far more important than what your circumstances tell other about you.

It’s not the time to grieve over what you have lost or to blame those who hurt you. It’s not the time to give explanations to anybody. It’s not the time to think Why this happened and Why me.

It’s the time to kill your inner demons and awaken yourself; to stand up for yourself.

If you are standing alone watching people leave you, it must be for a good reason that the person has quit your circle. Ask yourself few questions before you grieve over your loneliness. Have you ever loved yourself the way you feel for others? Have you ever given yourself any priority above others? Do you ever feel you are the most lovable creature on this planet earth?

If not, then don’t expect others to shower love at you when you don’t do that for yourself.