Every thing is fair game on these pages, people.
I’m bisexual. How do I deal with nosy-AF Qs about my hookups from straight friends?
As much as this probably pisses you off, take a beat and think about it this way: Friends will always ask for the sexual tea. Why? Because talking about sex with people you know and trust is almost as much fun as having it. (I said almost.) And “their curiosity is a positive thing because you get to debunk myths and misconceptions in one community—and that might ultimately help another community,” says sex educator Shan Boodram, author of The Game of Desire. Also, remember that you only have to spill what you’re comfortable sharing.
What’s the best sex position when you’re with a wellendowed guy?
Well, lucky you! Then again...maybe not? Receiving an oversize package can be uncomfortable—or even painful. Try hopping on top. “You’ll be in control of the thrusting, so you can decide how deep and fast he can go,” says Boodram. Or try standing up with him behind you. “He’ll lose some inches because you have a natural cushion between your bodies,” explains Boodram. Hint: It’s your butt.
This story is from the September 2019 edition of Cosmopolitan.
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