Little Hearts, Big Feels

Gen Alpha is learning about communication, friendship, and even getting its first taste of romance in the virtual world of multiplayer games

- Avantika Bhuyan

N.S., 15, has a vast circle of friends. Among their many shared interests is gaming—Roblox, Fortnite, Minecraft and others. Over the past few months, a classmate and fellow gamer, A.D., has caught her attention with his go-getter attitude and adventurous spirit. They're in the same group at school too, but Gurugram-based N.S. says it's gaming that gave her a glimpse into "his personality in real life". N.S. messaged him separately, and the interest turned out to be mutual. "I like the way his mind works, the way he navigates challenges on the platform." They now game together, virtually, in their own homes—apart from the sessions with their friends—and chat. Her parents are aware of her interest, but A.D. hasn't yet told his family about being "a little more than friends" with N.S.

Gaming and social media platforms have gone beyond their intended functions for Gen Alpha kids. Born between 2010 and 2024, the oldest of this generation is now 15 and is just stepping into the world of crushes, flirtations, and deep friendships. The virtual world of multiplayer games and collaborative online communities is the space where Gen Alpha is learning about communication, social negotiation, emotional connection, and even getting its first taste of romance. Digital meet-cutes, virtual dates with immersive environments and filters, and relationship advice from Artificial Intelligence bots...this is a generation that lets technology facilitate and intervene in relationships.