Seeing men’s capacity to uplift women

WOMEN’S Month marks a defining moment to confront a harsh reality: society often blankets men in suspicion. By ‘blanket assumption’ - used here as a metaphor - we mean a judgement that covers all men alike, ignoring individual differences, character and the determination to correct GBV.

- ANOLENE THANGAVELU PILLAY

This generalised assumption paints men as dangerous or untrustworthy rather than recognising their morals, integrity and protective nature that stands in togetherness despite the odds.

Are we truly seeing men as they are?

Are we allowing fear to distort our perceptions or are we open to recognising the potential for meaningful change within them?

Centuries ago, men’s protective energy and innate toughness were vital for the survival of communities. These qualities are embedded deep within their DNA - a framework built in from ancient times that still stands today, almost like the Great Wall of China, which is officially listed as one of the New 7 Wonders of the World, designed to uphold balance and harmony.

This blueprint hints at a cosmic structure carefully arranged to maintain equilibrium. Yet in modern times, this protective energy is sometimes misunderstood or overlooked. Observations trace the flow of these qualities: they shaped ancient communities and continue to influence schools, workplaces and social networks where men can uplift and protect.

Modern psychology and behavioral medicine reveal that resilience, protection and toughness are deeply embedded in human biology - especially in men. Scientific studies show these traits are not merely learned behaviours but are rooted in genetic and neurological factors passed down through generations.