Analysing the layers of a coconut

When we have a sense of clarity as to our purpose in life, then we institute the correct practices and habits around us, and set realistic and achievable results

- Rehan Khan

Many years ago, when I was involved in grassroots community work, I knew a raucous, rowdy, and unruly preacher who liked to make himself known at every gathering, was opinionated about everything and everyone, and - it seemed to me - his character was focused on condemning others and informing them how terrible they were. He was not a person you would invite to your house for a genial conversation over tea and scones. In fact, over time, I learned to avoid him, particularly at communal gatherings.

As the years passed, and I moved for work to other countries, I forgot about him, but again stumbled across him a decade later. While I recognized him as a person, his character had completely transformed. Gone was the firebrand hatemonger, and in his place was a gentle soul, utterly humble, modest, devoted to the service of others, displaying love and compassion. He was an absolute joy to be with and someone you would certainly invite over for a convivial conversation. Hate was a part of his former life, his former character; love was a part of his current one, his current character.