Is Your Heart Getting a Glow-up from Dating Sims?

Technology continues to shape our lifestyles in countless ways, even influencing how we experience romance.

- Words by Alyssa Joji Silva

I'm not talking about dating apps like Bumble or Tinder. I'm talking about dating simulation apps. Game developers have truly mastered the art of captivating hearts with their fantasy-filled genres, dramatic storylines, and the visually stunning characters they create that leave us players swooning over the game.

But beyond the emotions they stir, dating sims might be shaping what you expect from romance in real life. Let me drop a little “aha!” moment and show you how these games might be influencing your reality without you even noticing.

When virtual love redefines reality

I’ve played my fair share of dating sims, and they never fail to stir up emotions through the interactions and virtual gestures between characters. It’s especially heartwarming when they deliver lines that exude protectiveness, love, sweetness, and all the qualities anyone could dream of in a future partner. Add to that the incredible performance of the voice actors, who bring each leading character to life with such depth, emotion, and charm, and the experience becomes truly unforgettable. But behind the scenes, there’s something deeper happening—your heart and mind are subtly reshaping your expectations of what a real romantic relationship should be.