When Humanity Rises Above Religion, A Quiet Lesson in Guardianship

Life often teaches us its most valuable lessons in simple, everyday moments. Sometimes, something we quietly witness in a forgotten corner of this restless world leaves a deeper mark on our hearts than any long speech or sermon. Yesterday, I experienced one such moment, an incident so ordinary on the surface, yet it made a lasting impression on my heart and mind. It happened right here in Srinagar, and I feel it is my duty to share it, because within its simplicity, lies a lesson for us all.

- BY SYED MAJID GILANI

It was an ordinary day when I visited one of the largest trading firms in the city. The business is run by a young businessman from a faith different from the majority community here. He carries forward a family business established by his forefathers, non-Kashmiri speaking by back-ground. But what I saw in his office reminded me once again that humanity, discipline, and respect have no religion or boundary.

We sat in his spacious, well-lit office, casually talking about some work. Though he was a busy man, he still made time to sit with me over a cup of coffee. On one wall, an LCD screen quietly displayed live footage from his various offices around the city.

As we talked, a young girl, modestly dressed in an abaya, quietly entered the room. With lowered eyes and a soft voice, she asked for permission to leave work early, as she had something important at home.

What the businessman did next deeply touched me. Despite our important discussion, he immediately turned to her with fatherly kindness, called her “Beta”, and said gently but firmly,

“No problem, beta, but first call your parents, I need to speak to them.”

The girl left, made a call, and soon returned, saying softly,

“Sir, please speak to my mother.”

He took the phone, spoke respectfully to the lady, calling her “Aunty ji”, and asked whether it was fine for her daughter to leave early. The mother agreed without hesitation.

I thought the matter was over, but what happened next revealed the young businessman's true character.

He then turned to the girl and said,