A MODEL FOR THE KOOKY SET

Diane Keaton's singular fashion sense — best captured in 'Annie Hall' — masked her insecurities, yet exuded confidence

- AMY NICHOLSON

JASON LAVERIS FilmMagic

EVEN after success, actor Diane Keaton remained iffy about her looks, her talent and her achievements. In interviews, she openly admitted to feeling inadequate.

When Diane Keaton was 11, her father told her she was growing into a pretty young woman and someday, a boy would make her happy. She was horrified. One boy? Keaton — then going by her birth name of Diane Hall — needed to be loved by everyone. It was an early sign that she was meant to be an actor.

"Intimacy meant only one person loved you, not thousands, not millions," Keaton wrote decades later in her 2011 memoir "Then Again." Like drinking and smoking, she added, intimacy should be handled with caution.

"I wanted to be Warren Beatty, not date him," Keaton confessed, romancing fellow artists as long as their relationship was mutually stimulating and then after that, remaining friends. "I collect men," she jokingly told me when I interviewed her a decade ago, referring to a photo wall in her Los Angeles home of fellows she admired, including Morgan Freeman, Abraham Lincoln, Gary Cooper and John Wayne.

She wanted an excuse to add Ryan Gosling and Channing Tatum, so I suggested a love-triangle comedy as a twofer. “No! Not one movie!” Keaton exclaimed. “I want to keep my career going.”

Just as she hoped, millions of us did fall in love with Keaton, who died Saturday at age 79. She captivated us for over 50 years, from awards heavy-hitters to a late-career string of hangout comedies that weren't about anything more than the joy of spending time with Diane Keaton, or in the case of her 2022 body swap movie “Mack & Rita,” the thrill of becoming Diane Keaton.