Kashmir's Silent Epidemic

Behind closed doors, many children suffer in silence, too often trapped in cycles of trauma, shame, and denial.

- Irfan Attari Kashmiri

In the quiet corners of family homes, a terrifying reality is unfolding for countless children. It's one that is too often hidden behind the false veil of privacy, tradition, and social expectations.

Family sexual abuse is a silent epidemic, one that remains invisible even as it wreaks havoc on the emotional and mental health of young victims. Tragically, the very place that should offer safety and love—the family home—becomes a source of fear and violation for many children.

Across societies, there's a tendency to focus on dangers that exist outside the home: street crime, cyberbullying, and public violence. Yet, the true source of suffering for many children comes from within their own families.

Fathers, brothers, uncles, cousins, and even sometimes female relatives, are the abusers. These individuals, who hold power within the family structure, use their position to manipulate, control, and harm the most vulnerable. Worse, the fear of destroying family honor or bringing shame often forces the child into silence. When asking for help could lead to further violence or public humiliation, the child is left isolated in their trauma.

The damage done by sexual abuse goes far beyond the immediate physical assault. It causes deep emotional and psychological scars that can last a lifetime. Many survivors struggle with anxiety, depression, PTSD, and suicidal thoughts. These effects are compounded by the difficulty in forming healthy relationships and trusting others, which can hinder their future happiness and success.