My in-laws ruined big day and it spoiled everything

I married the love of my life 14 months ago.

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The day was beautiful in the end, but the run up to it was pure hell and it's totally ruined my relationships with my husband's family.

They footed the bill for most of the wedding, which was a mistake on our part because as soon as we accepted financial help, they basically took over and railroaded us into agreeing to everything they wanted.

My husband's mum and his three sisters were particularly horrible and I ended up having full-blown arguments with them because of the stress of it all. Every single decision I made was pulled apart and they said some pretty bitchy things about my choices behind my back.