Prøve GULL - Gratis

How to tell your family you have breast cancer

Derby Telegraph

|

September 30, 2025

TAKE TIME TO PROCESS THE DIAGNOSIS YOURSELF AND DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT FOR YOU.

- BY CAMILLA FOSTER

TELLING your family you've been diagnosed with breast cancer is one of the hardest conversations you may ever have.

The emotions are overwhelming and there is often a prevalent fear of how loved ones will react, which can make it difficult to know where to begin.

As we head into Breast Cancer Awareness Month (October), experts give their advice and tips on how to approach this deeply personal conversation.

From preparing what to say to managing emotional responses, here are practical tips to help guide you through sharing your diagnosis with the people who matter most...

TAKE TIME TO PROCESS THE DIAGNOSIS

"Emotional readiness is really important. Take some time to go away and process the news first at home in your own space before discussing it with family," recommends Kate Tomkinson, breast cancer nurse and spokesperson for Prevent Breast Cancer Charity UK.

"Gather your thoughts and let everything sink in, and don't worry as it may not do so for some time."

CHOOSE THE RIGHT TIME AND PLACE

"There is no rule book for when you receive a cancer diagnosis, there's no right or wrong way to do things," emphasises Kate. It's about just taking a day at a time and doing what feels right for you.

FLERE HISTORIER FRA Derby Telegraph

Derby Telegraph

Derby Telegraph

McCartney's ghost stories collection is a spooky salesroom hit

PAUL McCartney's ghost stories collection has gone up for auction.

time to read

1 mins

December 13, 2025

Derby Telegraph

Help to make it a happy Christmas for strays, plead charity

THE nation’s leading cat welfare charity has highlighted the plight of cats facing Christmas in rescue centres, including those in Derbyshire.

time to read

1 mins

December 13, 2025

Derby Telegraph

Don't convince yourself you can't do it, because you can

Joe Wicks is back with a new cookbook he hopes will shake up our eating habits.

time to read

2 mins

December 13, 2025

Derby Telegraph

PM should stand up to 'unreliable ally', says Davey

SIR Keir Starmer should be prepared to have a Love Actually moment and stand up to Donald Trump, the leader of the Liberal Democrats has suggested.

time to read

1 mins

December 13, 2025

Derby Telegraph

There are twists and turns you don't see coming

Kym Marsh tells LYNN RUSK about filming in Australia for her new series The Imposter, which centres on a family dispute over their hotel's future

time to read

4 mins

December 13, 2025

Derby Telegraph

'I feel fitter, healthier and happier than I ever have'

MUM WHO WAS TEASED AT SCHOOL ‘BOUNCED BACK’ AFTER SURGERY AND HAS NOW LOST NEARLY 10 STONES WITH HELP

time to read

2 mins

December 13, 2025

Derby Telegraph

Derby Telegraph

Businesses warned as scammers make contact in a bid to generate a refund

A REFUND scam is targeting business owners and tradespeople across Derbyshire.

time to read

1 min

December 13, 2025

Derby Telegraph

Derby Telegraph

Hoe Joly Smoke to strike Gold in Cheltenham's Cup

HOE Joly Smoke can secure victory in the Support The Hunt Family Fund December Gold Cup Handicap Chase (Premier Handicap) (GBB Race) (1.50pm) at Newbury this afternoon.

time to read

4 mins

December 13, 2025

Derby Telegraph

Streeting 'fearful for NHS as strike looms'

WES Streeting has said he is “genuinely fearful” for the NHS if next week’s strike by resident doctors goes ahead amid surging flu cases, agreeing the collapse of the health service is now “effectively” at “one minute to midnight”.

time to read

2 mins

December 13, 2025

Derby Telegraph

Flu outbreak hitting school attendance, says union

FLU outbreaks are hitting pupil attendance and school staffing, a union has said, after a number of schools have been disrupted by illness.

time to read

1 min

December 13, 2025

Listen

Translate

Share

-
+

Change font size