Randy fella won't ever use condoms

MY boyfriend loves sex but won't take any responsibility for contraception.

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Neither of us wants children, but it’s always down to me to ensure I’ve taken my Pill or (if I've been ill) have got my cap in.

Then I must check I've got plenty of spermicide in... basically all the responsibility is on me, which I don’t think is fair.

He already has two teenage kids he doesn’t see from ex-partners, but even that doesn’t convince him to wear a condom or even consider a vasectomy.

He’s quite macho and says contraception is the “woman's problem’ I call him a caveman, but he doesn’t care.

Awhile ago we visited his relatives and ended up staying overnight as we both drank too much.

We were put in a spare room and, of course, he expected sex.

I was anxious, because I'd had food poisoning days earlier and was worried my pill would fail.