Scared to tell my new bloke that I've still got a husband

I'M A woman aged 39 and I've been separated from my ex for a few months, but were still in the early stages of divorce.

- Dear Coleen

I've started dating again because I don't want to waste time, being nearly 40, plus my ex was having an affair, which is the reason we split.

I'm kind of being motivated by rage and revenge!

I've had a few dates since the marriage ended, but nothing felt right until a few weeks ago, when I met a really great man who seems perfect for me.

He a couple of years younger and has never been married, so isn't carrying any baggage.

My problem is, I haven't told him I've been married and that I'm currently getting divorced.